Figuring out presentation - and, more generally, life - outside the gender binary can be a strange kind of tightrope walk. A gender doula is here to walk beside you through your journey of transition (whatever that means to you) and help you find your balance, centering yourself and affirming your needs. We are here for you as you explore what you need to feel affirmed in your full identity. We specialize in helping individuals uncover their presentation goals and take steps toward manifesting them. We can help you build confidence in your identity by developing affirmations and personal mantras. We can hold space for your discovery or rediscovery of how you access pleasure. We are not mental health professionals we are just here to listen and give space for your growth in a compassionate trauma-informed environment.

When it’s painful to see yourself in the mirror.
When you need to find the perfect outfit for a special occasion.
When you just want to feel happy, safe, and maybe even seen walking down the street.
When you are looking for tools and strategies for non-surgical body transformation.
When you need help designing and fabricating your dream prosthetic parts or shapeshifting wear.
If you need a safe place to dream about your authentic pleasure and talk about what you need in intimacy.

These are things a gender doula could assist you with.

What do you hope to get out of your consultation? Let us know!

Consultations are held by phone, video chat, or in-person with Eppchez. Ey approaches this work with openness and will meet you on your terms where you are. Eppchez sees the role of the doula similar to a chaplain, or life coach as one of walking with you through a perhaps overwhelming experience. The doula facilitates a birthing process. The gender doula facilitates a re-birthing or self-birthing process. Eppchez possesses a wealth of knowledge about clothing designs and shapes, confidence-building practices, holistic and herbal methods for shapeshifting, astrological insight, mediations, strategies for accessing pleasure, and more. Sessions are completely confidential.

Our pricing structure is by love offering, this means you decide how much to donate for the service provided. What is this service worth to you?
Our recommendation is to think about how much you make in a working hour and compensate your gender doula accordingly.